Sunday, January 30, 2011

What Will Matter

Today, I chose to live a life that matter. I took one day off my computer to celebrate my best friend's birthday, bought chinese new year clothes with my boyfriend, and spend long hours chatting with my family members. Though I feel slightly guilty for not doing any work today, it is overcomed by happiness as I think that this is a perfect day. I believe that there is no limit to the amount of work I have to do, but there is a limit to the amount of time I have with my closest ones. I will catch up with work after this blog post. (:

To sum things up, here's one of my favourite poem to share with you today. When was the last time you spent quality time with your precious ones?

 What Will Matter

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.

Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear.

So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.
It won't matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end.
It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built; not what you got, but what you gave.

What will matter is not your success, but your significance.

What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught.

What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example.

What will matter is not your competence, but your character.

What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone.

What will matter is not your memories, but the memories that live in those who loved you.

What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn't happen by accident.
It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.

Author: Michael Josephson

2 comments:

  1. Hey babe, thanks for taking time off to celebrate my bday:)
    and u're awesomely right. what really matters is how we live our life at this very moment.. the impact we will make on those ard us..
    i love this poem man. makes people thing about what really matters in life:) thanks for sharing!

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  2. haha.. Anything for you, and as long as we are all happy, that's what matters. All the best for your upcoming assignments!!! :)

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